Ben let me post this story:
Ben learned this lesson when he was at Wells Fargo the other day putting a check in the bank. The lady helping him looked like she was having a bad day so he decided to strike up a little conversation to change her mood. Ben noticed she was sticking out a lot and he thought women like to talk about their pregnancy and he decided to ask her when she was due. The lady replied confused, "I just had my baby a week ago" Ben was taken back a little by her comment and didn't know what to say back.
At least she still talks to him when he goes back to the bank:-)
I really thought this was funny because Ben used to make fun of his mission companion for doing the same thing to a lady in the ward.....I guess what comes around goes around.